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The Top 10 Steps to Becoming Irresistibly Attractive This piece was originally created by Thomas J. Leonard, Founder, Coach University Copyright 97, 98, 99, 00, 2001 CoachVille. It's about time we all stop chasing after success and start attracting it. To be irresistibly attractive means to live your life such that you draw to you all that is positive. In other words, you stop pushing yourself and start living a life that is designed by its very nature to bring you what you are ready for. This top 10 list will help you get started. 1. Don't need much. If you need something, usually it will run away/escape you. Get your personal and financial needs met first and you'll find yourself attracting vs. seducing. BACK TO TOP 2. Think big, really big. Attraction occurs when there is a healthy vacuum between where you are and what you want to have happen. The wider the gap, the greater the pulling power of attraction. BACK TO TOP 3. Eliminate the holes in your life. Where are you being depleted? By whom? Plug those holes by extending boundaries, raising standards, resolving past issues, healing. Attraction won't find you until you're ready. Get ready. BACK TO TOP 4. Pay attention to what's happening to/around you RIGHT NOW. Attraction LIVES in the moment, not in the future. Are you responding fully to both the problems and the opportunities that are occurring -- in force -- right now, in your space? Gotta start here, where attraction can find you. BACK TO TOP 5. Learn from people who are naturally attractive. Some people are; some people aren't. Hang out with those who are and emulate them. And ask for help. They'll be happy to tell you how it works. Just be ready to make changes in your thinking, assumptions, actions and behavior. BACK TO TOP 6. Increase your awareness. Sounds trite, but it's necessary. Attraction is a subtle phenomenon. You won't feel it or get it until you've increased your awareness of yourself, those around you, how you think, your life assumptions. BACK TO TOP 7. Add value to whomever or whatever you encounter. We all have something to add. Add it. If you don't have enough to add, learn a new skill. When you ADD what you have to other's lives, whether they are clients, friends, potential customers, or family, YOU become much more attractive. BACK TO TOP 8. Tell the truth. This means more than not lying. There is a level of telling the truth that will truly set you free and attract others to you. And, there is a way to tell the truth from a place of love vs power. Usually having awareness and advanced phrasing is what helps this process occur naturally. That, plus having enough reserve in your life so you can afford any consequences of telling the truth. BACK TO TOP 9. Build a reserve in all areas. When you have enough money, time, space, love, ideas, opportunities, friends, you'll become an even stronger magnet for what you want -- because you won't NEED it. BACK TO TOP 10. Do what YOU want to do in life. We've all been overly influenced by shoulds, oughts and have-to's. So much so that what you/we want to do has been suppressed WAY down deep. BACK TO TOP A coach can help you change your personal "operating system" so you become Irresistably Attractive. Contact Annemarie for more information. |
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